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Decidedly Debbie Coaching

You haven't lost yourself. You just need help finding your way back.

I'm here to help you remember who you are beneath the noise, the roles, and the running. Through coaching, energy work, and soul-aligned guidance, we clear what's in the way so you can step fully into the woman you are becoming.

You've got this. And I've got you.

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What People are Saying

  • Debbie created a space where I could honestly question what I was taught without fear or shame. Through this process, I began to untangle beliefs that never felt like mine and reconnect with a spirituality that feels true to me. For the first time, I feel empowered to trust my voice and follow my own path

    -Steph, USA

  • As my life coach, Debbie helped me to be a better version of myself. I am more thoughtful, organized, and balanced.

    -Sarah, USA

  • Working with Debbie has completely changed how I show up in my life. I’ve learned to set healthy boundaries without guilt, honor my needs, and live with greater confidence. The personal growth I've experienced through her coaching has been truly life changing.

    - Jennifer, USA

Upcoming Events

Featured
Soul Fam Zoom
Oct 4
Soul Fam Zoom

Join us for our monthly event designed to foster connection, sharing, and support. It’s a safe space where we come together to uplift one another, exchange insights, and hold space for personal growth. Whether you're looking for community or simply want to share your journey, you’re welcome to join this circle of kindred spirits.

cost FREE register here

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Mindful Gathering Monthly Live
Oct 10
Mindful Gathering Monthly Live

Mindful Gathering Monthly Live

What if some of the things you’ve been trying to change about yourself didn’t actually start with you?

We inherit more than names, traditions, and family stories. We can also inherit patterns around love, relationships, boundaries, emotions, spirituality, belonging, and what we learned we needed to be in order to feel accepted.

In this month’s Mindful Gathering, we’ll explore the wounds we inherit and the ones we can finally begin to close.We’ll look at how to recognize generational patterns, how to understand where they came from without excusing the harm they caused, and how to begin breaking cycles with love rather than blame.

This isn’t about blaming the people who came before us or pretending everything in our lineage was unhealthy. It’s about becoming conscious of what we’ve been carrying and deciding what we want to do with it now.

Together, we’ll come back to three powerful questions:

What ends with me?
What begins with me?
What do I choose to pass forward?

You don’t have to heal your entire lineage. You don’t have to have gotten everything right in the past. You simply get to decide what you want to do differently from this moment forward.

You are the ancestor your lineage has been waiting for.

Join me for a morning of reflection, conversation, and connection as we explore what we want to honor, what we’re ready to release, and what we consciously choose to carry forward.

each session is $17 via Zoom, clients 18+

Cost $17 click here

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Gene Keys Series
Oct 18
Gene Keys Series

Gene Key 50 is about the journey from corruption to equilibrium to harmony. It's asking us to look honestly at the values that guide us, the patterns we've inherited, and what we're ready to transform.

So as we move into this transit, we'll explore what it means to restore balance within, and how that shift ripples out into our families, our relationships, and our communities.

Come join the conversation. This event is for 18+ and is free and on zoom.

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Group Reiki
Oct 21
Group Reiki

Reiki is an ancient healing practice that harnesses universal life force energy to promote physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being. As a trusted and experienced practitioner, Debbie brings her passion for healing and her mastery of Reiki to help you unlock your body's innate healing abilities. In the group setting, Debbie directs Reiki energy towards the group intending to balance and harmonize their energy, promote relaxation, alleviate stress, and support the body's natural healing processes. The energy can be sent simultaneously to all members and/or directed individually. 8 participants maximum

Cost $17 register here

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The Divine Feminine Series
Oct 25
The Divine Feminine Series

Join Debbie and Cassandra for a monthly Zoom conversation exploring the divine feminine across time, tradition, and culture. Sekhmet, the lioness goddess of ancient Egypt, embodies fierce feminine power, protection, healing, and transformation. Together we'll explore her story and what her energy can teach us about honoring our anger, standing in our power, protecting what's sacred, and remembering that the Divine Feminine is not only soft and nurturing... She is fierce, powerful, and unapologetic too. Join us live on Zoom to be part of the discussion, or catch the replay in our Facebook group and on YouTube.

Cost is free. register here

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Soul Fam Zoom
Nov 1
Soul Fam Zoom

Join us for our monthly event designed to foster connection, sharing, and support. It’s a safe space where we come together to uplift one another, exchange insights, and hold space for personal growth. Whether you're looking for community or simply want to share your journey, you’re welcome to join this circle of kindred spirits.

cost FREE register here

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Mindful Gathering Monthly Live
Nov 14
Mindful Gathering Monthly Live

Mindful Gathering Monthly Live

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Join me each month for a live gathering where we come together to explore mindfulness practices that help align, heal, and empower your authentic self. Through connection, reflection, and healing, we create space for personal growth and transformation in a supportive community.

each session is $17 via Zoom, clients 18+

Cost $17 click here

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Group Reiki
Nov 18
Group Reiki

Reiki is an ancient healing practice that harnesses universal life force energy to promote physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being. As a trusted and experienced practitioner, Debbie brings her passion for healing and her mastery of Reiki to help you unlock your body's innate healing abilities. In the group setting, Debbie directs Reiki energy towards the group intending to balance and harmonize their energy, promote relaxation, alleviate stress, and support the body's natural healing processes. The energy can be sent simultaneously to all members and/or directed individually. 8 participants maximum

Cost $17 register here

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Upcoming Courses

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Inner Child Healing

The patterns we carry into adulthood often began long before we had words for them.

This six-week journey is an invitation to explore the wounds, unmet needs, and early relationships that helped shape who you became. Together, we’ll look beyond just the mother wound to the influence of fathers, siblings, caregivers, and generational patterns.

This isn’t about blame or staying stuck in the past. It’s about understanding what shaped you, tending to the parts of you that still need care, and reclaiming your voice, your worth, and the freedom to choose who you are becoming.

Six weeks beginning October 22

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Learn Usui Reiki Level I & Level II

Are you ready to deepen your connection with energy, healing, and your true self?

Learn the foundations of Reiki energy healing and receive your Reiki attunements to connect with universal life force energy.

Whether you’re seeking personal healing, spiritual growth, or a way to help others, Reiki can open the door to new possibilities.

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Ongoing Support for Your Journey

Choose the level of support that fits your path, from inspiration and resources to guided healing and deeper community connection. My membership offerings are designed to nurture your growth, empower your voice, and keep you supported every step of the way.

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A Little Dose of Debbie weekly blog
$5.00
Every month

A weekly spark of insight, mindful musings, and soulful prompts. Your weekly dose of clarity and care straight from the heart of Decidedly Debbie.

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Mindful Gathering Membership
$17.00
Every month

Come as you are. Grow as you’re meant to. Join us for monthly gatherings, stay uplifted with weekly inspiration, and experience authentic connection as we walk the path of aligned living together.

✓ Monthly event via zoom ($17 value)
✓ Little Dose of Debbie weekly blog ($5 value)
✓ Membership page with access to benefits and replays
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Thrive Together Life Group
$88.00
Every month

Thrive Together is a monthly group coaching membership for women ready to stop putting themselves last. Twice a month you gather for live sessions on self-trust, discernment, and embodiment, plus a monthly Mindful Gathering workshop and a weekly blog to keep you rooted in between. $88/month, a standing commitment to yourself.

✓ Small group coaching twice a month ($88 value)
✓ Access to the monthly live event ( $17 value)
✓ Access to the weekly blog ( $5 value)
✓ Discount of 25% on courses and individual coaching plans
✓ Membership page with access to benefits and replays